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locus_ofcontro) wrote2009-07-28 04:30 pm
locus_ofcontro) wrote2009-07-28 04:30 pm
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What's up pussycat?
Let's see... so many things left unsaid in so many parts of the world... I could make, and perhaps should make separate posts about various aspects of my life but that involves caring about filters .... These days, I just filter everything that goes out here... Makes for way less drama and mashed fingers/toes.
But here goes the "one size fits most" update.
Work
- is crazy crazy psycho crazy busy. Sometimes I miss the concept of getting home and actually being DONE the days work. I'm chronically behind and while I know that's normal for this job, there's times I wish i could feel a sense of a day's closure.
- colleagues are fun, but a bad influence in some ways
- we are understaffed, again...wait...that's still
- I'm regularly reminded of peoples stupidity
-waiting for a posting to come up, considering a lateral move
House
- there's a 'get rid of it' box in every room, mostly K's toys and things
-have to walk her dresser drawers to the neighbour for fixing
-situation normal otherwise, though I picked up a dehumidifier for the basement and am AMAZED at how much water it can pull from the air
-want company to work on the garden/yard stuff - hate doing outside by myself
Cats
- Spartakin, the kitten, is crazy - 'nuff said
- Hime hasn't killed him yet - 'nuff said
Parenting
- my daughter remains the coolest, most exasperating child on the planet, with a BRUTAL sense of humour
- K is away with her dad this week. while I miss her, I also appreciate the silence
Relationships
- have a few regular dating partners right now. Some kinky minded, some not
- one fellow I'm keen on to build something...we'll see where that goes
Health
- not great
- dystolic blood pressure is too high, wearing an ambulatory monitor for 48hrs after I return from vacation
- sleep - sporadic
- smoking - mostly quit..if I'm not around someone smoking, I have no desire for it ..this is where colleagues become a bad influence
Self -care
- stopped seeing "the capital R" a while back, have been doing my own work...ACOA and otherwise
- assessing, and being assesed for the big BP
-discovered that this earthy sign needs more water time....
- aware that emotional and sexual intimacy are VERY DIFFERENT for me...and working on finding a way to work on that
- reading as much as ever
LOVES
- that my ex and I can not only deal with each other with respect and courtesy, but even actually LIKE each other a bit still (speaking for myself here of course)
- that I have friends and lovers who want to be part of my world
- my daughter! IN all her glory and chaos
- my job - despite the stresses and challenges...its a fortunate thing to have and I'm enriched by the people I encounter
But here goes the "one size fits most" update.
Work
- is crazy crazy psycho crazy busy. Sometimes I miss the concept of getting home and actually being DONE the days work. I'm chronically behind and while I know that's normal for this job, there's times I wish i could feel a sense of a day's closure.
- colleagues are fun, but a bad influence in some ways
- we are understaffed, again...wait...that's still
- I'm regularly reminded of peoples stupidity
-waiting for a posting to come up, considering a lateral move
House
- there's a 'get rid of it' box in every room, mostly K's toys and things
-have to walk her dresser drawers to the neighbour for fixing
-situation normal otherwise, though I picked up a dehumidifier for the basement and am AMAZED at how much water it can pull from the air
-want company to work on the garden/yard stuff - hate doing outside by myself
Cats
- Spartakin, the kitten, is crazy - 'nuff said
- Hime hasn't killed him yet - 'nuff said
Parenting
- my daughter remains the coolest, most exasperating child on the planet, with a BRUTAL sense of humour
- K is away with her dad this week. while I miss her, I also appreciate the silence
Relationships
- have a few regular dating partners right now. Some kinky minded, some not
- one fellow I'm keen on to build something...we'll see where that goes
Health
- not great
- dystolic blood pressure is too high, wearing an ambulatory monitor for 48hrs after I return from vacation
- sleep - sporadic
- smoking - mostly quit..if I'm not around someone smoking, I have no desire for it ..this is where colleagues become a bad influence
Self -care
- stopped seeing "the capital R" a while back, have been doing my own work...ACOA and otherwise
- assessing, and being assesed for the big BP
-discovered that this earthy sign needs more water time....
- aware that emotional and sexual intimacy are VERY DIFFERENT for me...and working on finding a way to work on that
- reading as much as ever
LOVES
- that my ex and I can not only deal with each other with respect and courtesy, but even actually LIKE each other a bit still (speaking for myself here of course)
- that I have friends and lovers who want to be part of my world
- my daughter! IN all her glory and chaos
- my job - despite the stresses and challenges...its a fortunate thing to have and I'm enriched by the people I encounter
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