Rough Night in Dreamtime

Course I don't dream!!

I'm glad I crashed out when I did. There were 3 separate visits from the dreamer each one increasingly distressful. K is now still snuggled in my bed where she finally ended up.

How do you deal with a 5 year old who wakes up crying that she doesn't want everyone to die?

From Exceptional Marriage

"It's Your Fault!"
Disengaging from the Cycle of Blame

You wake up in the middle of the night asking yourself "Am I really miserable to be around?" This is what your spouse had suggested earlier in the day during a conflict over where to go this coming weekend. The phone conversation with your lover ends badly and for the remainder of the day you cannot shake off its effects. An argument you have during a 3 hour car trip to your in-laws leads nowhere and tension permeates the dead air.

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Take a look at the routine ways your relationship gets bogged down in blame. Perhaps it would help to admit, at least to yourself that you have a negative intent to make your partner feel badly. Maybe you can extricate yourself from the blame box and ask your partner to reveal the mystery behind the things she does that frustrate you so much. Are you willing to know the rest of the story, or are you content to dither about in the domain of blame? You do have a choice.