A perspective on
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locus_ofcontroRelationships
I'm pretty sure I know where that power stood in my house... I used to always say, everything I care about I can pack in my kit bag...
But I never did.
Then after more time together, I'd say everything I care about I can pack in the Celica....
But I never did.
I don't say that anymore. It always was, mostly a joke... a running gag in our house where he was ALWAYS more "in love" than I was.
For me, it's never been about that nebulous, poorly defined, fickle matter of love. It was always about choice and committment, of time, energy, and resources.
And it still is. Does that mean it's love?
guess it depends on your definition... So what happened to the Power? Does either of us hold the power now?
I think we're growing beyond that.... It's a goodness...
I'm pretty sure I know where that power stood in my house... I used to always say, everything I care about I can pack in my kit bag...
But I never did.
Then after more time together, I'd say everything I care about I can pack in the Celica....
But I never did.
I don't say that anymore. It always was, mostly a joke... a running gag in our house where he was ALWAYS more "in love" than I was.
For me, it's never been about that nebulous, poorly defined, fickle matter of love. It was always about choice and committment, of time, energy, and resources.
And it still is. Does that mean it's love?
guess it depends on your definition... So what happened to the Power? Does either of us hold the power now?
I think we're growing beyond that.... It's a goodness...
